The last few months have been intensely full for me. In addition to all the work it took to get my school-aged kids on the other side of this virtual schooling situation, I also had some challenges of my own.
Some of my challenges were self-induced. I signed up for a book pitch event on Twitter in April. It was my first time doing it so I didn’t know exactly what to expect (though I’d witnessed pitch events before). I had no clue that one day would wear me out for so long!
Yes, I have an infant and a preschool kid, and two others at home, but even without them, I think I would have needed a serious break from internetting and screens in general.
There is a power in knowing yourself deeply enough to respect what’s right for you, especially when it doesn’t fit in with whatever is popular or expected at the time. I don’t regret doing the pitch event, but I always regret not being more prepared…not getting help, when I could have.
Before making commitments and decisions it’s a great idea to troubleshoot any potential obstacles ahead of time. How often do you engage in self-consent?
I’m a planner. I’ve had situations where I’ve been expected to be spontaneous and so I’ve adapted to spontaneity as well, but there always comes a point when a decision needs to be made.
Is this too much for me? or Does this work for me?
There’s no judgment there and no shame. It’s true or false…yes or no.
If the thing is too much for me, can I troubleshoot/reverse engineer/plan for the non-plan?
If not, hopefully I choose to not engage because if I don’t, I end up paying for it.
We all have our limits, but do we respect them?
We all have our strengths but do we maximize and organize our life and plans around them?
My back-up plan? An accountability partner. That could be a coach, biz bestie, friend or family member. Maybe if you’re really stubborn (like the Capricorn I am) you might need a few.
Have you ever had an accountability partner? Would you like one? Comment and I may have a solution up my sleeve.
Happy choosing,
Mera
P.S. Welcome new “followers”. The most difficult 10 months ever is over so you should be reading from me more soon. I look forward to connecting!